On the last day of school this year, I was extremely surprised to see that there was no HUGE packet requiring my attention in either of my boys’ bookbags. Let me explain…. Let us rewind to a few years ago when, with every holiday that rolled around, my eldest would have page after page of math work and then a project due upon his return to the classroom. This was for short breaks from school but for summer breaks, there was even more pressure. I remember cringing at the thought when it was time to create these packets. As a teacher myself, I had to come up with what we would place in the packet. I did as I was told and sent home a ridiculous pile of papers that I knew served no real purpose for most of the children I taught.
Many of the students in my classroom would NEVER turn these packets back in. I even had one child say when she returned to school, “my mom said we don’t do homework in the summer, summer is for fun!” I had to put the brakes on that one because, in my opinion, yes, summer can be fun but you can learn and enjoy yourself at the same time! However, summer learning was not fun with the packets being sent home by the schools. I know for my boy, it was TORTURE – that’s right I said it T-O-R-T-U-R-E – so I had to turn it into something FUN, but damn, how could I when the work was way too much?
After the winter break last year, I sent the principal and teachers an email in which I explained that I thought the work being sent home in these packets was way too much. I am all for keeping the children up to par with their education including all subjects, but I reminded the principal that children still need to be children. I even went on to say that, as a teacher I look forward to these breaks to spend “quality” time with my boys since we work so hard throughout the school year! It seems as though I wasn’t the only parent who voiced this opinion because the next packet sent home months later was significantly smaller. My son completed it with great satisfaction and I didn’t hear a word of negativity or opposition to it.
Let’s fast forward to searching his bag as school got out this year and NOT finding a packet at all! I was SHOCKED but oh so relieved. Relieved because, without the pressure of the packet, I was given the opportunity to focus on what my son really needs to work on this summer instead of just giving him garbage that the school wants him to do. He will get to work on concepts and strategies that I know he needs strengthening in and we get to do it on our own time. He also gets to read a book that he wants instead of a mandatory selection that is of no interest to him. My school did nearly the same thing this year. Instead of giving out packets, they gave out bridge books for the children to complete throughout the summer. Once they complete the book, their parents approve it and provide them with the completion certificate to return to school in the Fall. It makes the children AND parents responsible!
I really enjoy the fact that the school took the parents’ voice into consideration and provided the students with no summer packet or required reading log. My son is more relaxed and enjoying his summer, but still learning and reviewing concepts in the process. Although education is important, children must learn how to socialize and be young as well. Parents need to begin stepping up to the plate, observing what their child needs throughout the school year and reviewing this throughout the summer. Children should be able to learn at their own pace and it should always be fun and resourceful for them.
Care to share: Did your child receive a summer packet for summer break this year and how do you feel about the packets?
Denise says
Andre received one but it’s not nearly as big. He’s in charter school so they have always been “light” on homework. Their theory is the students work hard & long that home time should be quality time with family which I agree. But as he heads into 3rd grade this fall, my hubby is creating his own packet to strengthen Andre’s reading & vocabulary. Plus summer camp does their own school work everyday. I agree summer is for fun but we can’t let them forget to learn as well. Have a great summer!
Eileen Carter-Campos says
Denise,
I completely agree with you. As a teacher I firmly believe in children NOT losing during summertime but I also know to be well rounded children they must have some down time and “quality” time with their family. We work hard and play even harder in our home. We have to choose what is best for our children. Kudos to you and your hubby. Thanks for reading and responding!!!
Careshia Moore says
Yes, my son received a packet and guess what,he gets an ice cream party during the first week of school if he decides to complete it. This is the first year we have not been on top of it. We have been so busy doing other fun learning. Now we won’t blow it off but we will spend more time reading his favorite series Percy Jackson (the other day he compared Krispy Kreme donuts to sirens) and writing on his blog. You know fun stuff that he does while learning. I’m all for avoiding the summer slump but the packets are a bit too dense.
Eileen Carter-Campos says
Careshia…what a beautiful name!
Thanks so much for reading and responding. You really hit the nail on the head when
you said, “we have been so busy doing other fun learning”–that’s the key point to this post! There must be more CHOICE for children in order for work NOT to be considered WORK!!!!
Thanks again, honey!
Vicky says
I know what you mean with 2 books reading plus math packets it it is crazy. I respect reading and a book report but sometimes it just gets overwhelming and innocence is lost.
Eileen Carter-Campos says
Vicky,
YES!!! Innocence should NOT be lost! They have their entire life for that–they need to LEARN but most importantly BE KIDS!!!!!
HUGS!!!!
Kitty Bradshaw says
Wow, didn’t know that they did this. I remember “recommended reading”, but not a whole lesson plan for the parents lolll.
Eileen Carter-Campos says
Kitty,
Yes! As a teacher—if WE are complaining there is a problem!!! LOL
It’s great for kids to learn but everyone needs down time!
Thanks for reading & responding!!!!